26 Dating tips by Jacqkie

i'm a total nerd and a loser in relationships. anyway, i went out on a date the other day, and i have some simple nice tips for MYSELF and for other girls or boys out there according to me. yeas, you can ignore this post if you must because it's all from me. even if you really like, you couldn't care less or you hate that guy(i doubt so, since you're out with him), these tips should be practiced because it should! i came up with these tips to remind myself time and time again never to do the dating/outing taboos!

>>if you dont like me, i suggest you Exit the page now. <<

a) never wear anything that shows your cleavage; i wore once this really low cut shirt it made me look like i'm a desperate 24 year old. and that guy was obviously checking out my babies. Oh boyyyyyy!

b) wear really comfortable shoes/ sandals/ heels; some guys will bring you to a "joy- walking ride". whyla brother?

c) always SMILE when you first meet/saw him; flash him your winning date smile, tell him you're excited! i know i am. teheee.

d) be real.....at least 70% of youLA; i ate a whole Mee Sup without caring about anything else that time because i was so hungry in front of this guy- it turns out that whole hungry thing turned him on. weird eh?

e) know your maths; i ate once with this guy and insist on paying my half. somehow, my calculation got jumbled up, he ended up paying for me. hmmmmmmm. so much for being nice eh?

f) if it's not funny, it's not funny! ; a guy told me a lame joke once and i told him i dont even understand the joke. he diverted the conversation to ice creams. yeay! you dont have to go through lame jokes if you dont want too! be honest!

g) dont feel embarassed with what he's wearing instead make joke out of it positively; i joke once with this guy who wore 'selipar' and shorts to our date and asked him whether he's going anywhere near a farm, he laughed and it made both of us relaxed with the situation after that. i know it's straight forward, but at least i'm honest?

h) if possible, dont tie up your hair; twirl it and play with it if you're bored. he'll notice you're bored and do something about it. it helps! it covers up imperfections too.. ngeh ngeh ngeh.

i) always ask questions, intelligent ones please!; a friend of mine's date once told me my friend was absolutely cute when she asked some interesting questions. it made him look clever. well, look only la. :D

j) dont give directions. help him find it! ; i helped a guy looked for a place once and he thanked me endlessly for it. all i did was ask around. hahaha! you could do it for shops do u know that?

k) pay him good attention about his interest; a guy thanked me for listening to his obsession for cars and bought me dinner. all i did was listen.

l) tell him what you want in a guy and be freaking honest about it; i told a guy once i want a gentleman, rich if possible, and catholic and he changed into this really nice guy. unfortunately, my feelings for him didn't ;(

m) do not pretend you know how to fine dine; i had a fine dine the other night and i warned him firstly. he laughed and said it's ok. he asked his friend and his friend showed me how to. at least i got to learn than not knowing right?

n) DONT bring your friend(s)!; i hope anyone or everyone who's reading this is NOT 13years of age. obviously you dont need your 'cousin' or 'sister' to accompany you anymore.

o) watch movies and dont tuck in; my date dozed once and i felt like killing him and leave him there to rot. but nah, i was too nice to just let him sleep for a minute.



q) wear black if possible (not everywhere but any-where); sexy and elegant. at least that's what i thought so. ;D

r) sneak out to the restrooms for "touchups" if possible; every girl should do this? although i dont really. heh. i got this from cleo.

s) dont whine or complain or talk about your ex! ; i did this and bored the shit out of that guy. i wont do it again, i'll try, i promise, i think.....

t) try not to cross your legs (depends); a girl with a short skirt once crossed her legs in front of my friend. he loved the skin exposure but didn't like the whole seductive pose. i guess it's only ok if it's a mutual thing huh?

u) talk about your studies/work; i love talking to a guy who talks about his studies. not all the time but bits and bits please. intellectual conversations are awesome.

v) LIPGLOSS; forget about the mascara or eyeliners if you dont want too, but lipglosses are must. it makes all girls look 'alive' and 'ready' for the date.


w) leave some..; it's always good to leave some food or whatever you had for your date to try. i didn't leave anything for my date of a cake and he asked me how it was the other day. Malunye.

x) where's your eyes?; avoid wearing sunglasses. a friend complaint to me once when her date wore sunglasses at the beach all the time and it pisses her off. she got bored halfway talking to her own reflection on his shades.
y) ready some small changes; it's always easy when you dont depend completely on your date to pay the parking tickets or tips. right? you will look good and he will feel good as you dont depend completely on him.

z) AVOID the HANDPHONE(s); unless he is really reallly reallllllyyy realllllllllllllyyyyyy IS boring. it is forgiven!



Love and did i mention to you i'm a loser in relationships?
Jacqkie.